After just barely a month into the new year, I’ve watched numerous people whom I love following on Instagram share their disheartened stories about how they find no joy in posting anymore. They have 10s of thousands of followers and they just want to give up altogether.
It’s difficult to watch people who are so lovely and talented, who inspire me, feeling beaten by an imaginary set of rules, who feel as though they can’t win against some computer code.
I’ve gone through the same things as others by using this platform since 2011.
We all do. It doesn’t matter if you have 50 followers or 50,000.
The comparison and feeling like we don’t have what they have or can’t create what they do affect everyone. And many of us deal with the frustration of watching follower numbers stay the same year after year.
The platform isn’t going away for most of us. It still serves as a way to communicate with those who want to connect and as a way to share our foods, products, and creative works.
The truth is I don’t hate Instagram. I have to set boundaries on scrolling. I take regular, healthy breaks from it and I look forward to coming back and posting again, to flipping through my feed.
This mindset shift is due to four very specific things.